岁月磨平棱角，时光沉淀心性，中年，是与生活温柔相拥的开始

岁月磨平了年少时的锋芒，沉淀出中年的通透与从容。我们不再执着于改变世界，而是学会调整心态，在柴米油盐中寻诗意，与生活温柔相拥。褪去棱角的温润，是时光赐予最珍贵的礼物。

岁月是最温柔的打磨者，悄无声息间，磨平了年少时的锋芒棱角；时光是最沉静的沉淀剂，缓缓流淌中，沉淀了心底的浮躁与喧嚣。人到中年，褪去了青涩懵懂，告别了意气用事，终于学会放下执念，与生活温柔相拥，这不是妥协，而是历经世事之后，最清醒的通透与最深情的接纳。

年少时，总带着一身棱角奔赴山海，以为只要足够热烈、足够执着，就能撞开理想的大门，就能留住心中的热爱。那时的我们，易怒、

易急

、易遗憾，为一句争执不肯退让，为一次失去辗转难眠，为未完成的梦想耿耿于怀。那些尖锐的棱角，既是我们对抗世界的铠甲，也是刺伤自己的锋芒，在跌跌撞撞的前行中，留下了满身细碎的伤痕。

时光流转，岁月沉淀，中年的我们，渐渐收起了一身锋芒，学会了与生活和解。不再为鸡毛蒜皮的小事斤斤计较，不再为遥不可及的奢望辗转反侧，懂得了世事无常，接纳了不完美的自己，也包容了生活中的遗憾。就像被岁月打磨过的鹅卵石，褪去了粗糙的外壳，多了几分温润与从容，褪去了尖锐的棱角，多了几分平和与淡然。

这份从容，藏在三餐四季的烟火里。晨起煮一碗热粥，看阳光透过窗棂洒在桌面；日暮伴一盏灯火，与家人闲话家常，褪去一天的疲惫。不再追求轰轰烈烈的仪式感，只珍惜平平淡淡的陪伴；不再渴望鲜衣怒马的惊艳，只享受细水长流的安稳。那些曾经觉得枯燥的日常，如今都成了心底最温暖的慰藉；那些曾经无法释怀的过往，如今都成了岁月里最珍贵的回忆。

中年的与生活相拥，是懂得取舍，是学会沉淀。取舍的是无关紧要的喧嚣，沉淀的是内心深处的安宁；放下的是不切实际的执念，守住的是心中的热爱与温柔。我们不再试图改变世界，而是学着调整自己的心态，以素心待生活，以温柔对自己，在柴米油盐中寻诗意，在平淡岁月中守清欢。http://www.blog.mijiguicn.com/ArTicle/details/36592383.sHtML
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岁月磨平棱角，不是变得圆滑世故，而是变得温柔通透；时光沉淀心性，不是变得麻木冷漠，而是变得从容坚定。中年，从来不是人生的下半场，而是与生活温柔相拥的开始。往后余生，不慌不忙，不卑不亢，接纳岁月的馈赠，包容生活的瑕疵，在平淡中品味美好，在从容中奔赴山海，便是中年最好的模样。